Breaking Free: A Journey from Fear to Freedom with Safe Homes

For seven years, I felt completely trapped in hopelessness and isolation. I tried to leave a few times, but each time I second-guessed myself, worried about my kids, and convinced myself I wasn’t strong enough to break free. The longer I stayed, the heavier the shame became. I always feared what would come after I left—what would happen once I moved out? That thought was even scarier than living where I was. I felt like I didn’t have anyone to turn to or the support I needed to make a change. Then, I was connected with Safe Homes through the WCA.

The moment I first time spoke with Sister Marie, I felt an overwhelming sense of acceptance. There was no judgment, no shame—only support, not just financial, but moral and emotional as well. From that first conversation, I felt a glimmer of hope that maybe, just maybe, I could break the chain of abuse for good and finally create a safe home for my children. I had always feared that if I couldn’t provide for them, I would lose them, but Sr. Marie’s presence helped me feel less alone. Even though she never said it directly, I felt she was there to keep me accountable and help me stay strong, even on my hardest days. Over two years later, I still hear that welcoming heart in her voice, and I know there are many other women out there, at that very moment, feeling the same kind of support and hope from this organization.

For me, “open doors” meant being accepted exactly as I was, with no questions about my past or my spirituality. They didn’t judge me or question my integrity. They were simply ready to help me and my children, regardless of my situation. It was a place where I felt truly welcomed, with open hearts and open arms, and I knew I had a chance to rebuild my life.

The impact of having a safe place to live was immeasurable. I remember the day I moved into my new home—it felt like a huge weight had been lifted off my shoulders. That night, I cried, I cried so loud, but not out of fear or sadness. I cried because I finally felt free. After years of living in fear, I was filled with a hope I hadn’t experienced in so long. It took time, of course, to feel fully secure and at peace, and I want other women to know that healing doesn’t happen overnight. It takes time to process everything and to grow stronger. But having Sr. Marie to talk to regularly, to meet with each month and work through my emotions, made all the difference in helping me feel safe and regain my sense of peace. On top of the emotional support, I also received a monthly financial voucher to help with expenses, which allowed me to continue living independently and stay on track. That support gave me one less thing to worry about, helping me focus on healing and moving forward with my life.

Sincerely,
D.M.